Saturday, October 24, 2009

Random Saturday Thoughts

I'm tired of being sick. We've all had our turns being sick this past month and now it's my turn. I'm ready for everyone to be completely healthy again and sleeping normally. Sick mommy+lots of sleepless nights+2 kids full of endless amounts of energy = one very tired, grouchy mommy.

I really need to spend some more time with God. I think that would help my stinky attitude and change my perspective on life.

I miss cheddar cheese. Is it possible to send cheese through the mail? Seriously? We've already received lots of Velveeta (thanks everyone), but that isn't real cheese so it doesn't count. So, who wants to send a big refrigerated box full of cheddar cheese to Turkey? Any takers? :)

On that note, I also really miss bacon, but we'd have to go to Greece to get some. I guess we could take the 30 minute ferry ride there and stock up. Hmmm. But Adam and Melanie were so kind to share their bacon bits with us that they received in their last package. I love those guys!

Learning a language is HARD! It's going to take lots of time, commitment, determination and LOTS of God's grace. I'm constantly being humbled and some days I just want to give up. These past 10 months have definitely been such an emotional roller coaster ride. Some days I feel like I'm really understanding Turkish and getting somewhere, but other days I feel so discouraged and that I'll never be able to fully understand and communicate. I really want to learn Turkish well, not just enough to get by!

My toes are freeeeeezing and I can't quite seem to get them warm!


I've been realizing how blessed we are. And really how m
uch we need to be good stewards of the things we've been given. It has been interesting to study the life of Jesus these past couple of months and really pay attention to what he says about money and giving. Good stuff! We've been challenged a lot and it's led to some changes in our lives. Why can't we sacrifice so that others can have more? Why do we feel so entitled to everything? It's really not ours. Why we do save up money for an "emergency" when there are others living in one right now? Why do we even save at all? I've been thinking a lot about Matthew 6:19-21 lately.

I just finished reading the book about my Grandpa's life again and I wish I could have gotten to know him better while he was still alive. What an incredible man! Whenever he was asked where he was going, he would always say . . . "Oh I'm just stopping by Lancaster (or wherever he was) on my way to Heaven!" He really did live his life with an eternal perspective.

Has anyone read Crazy Love by Francis Chan? Great book, so if you haven't read it, go get it! Yeah that's right, go buy it right now!

There's not too much going on with our adoption right now. We're still waiting on our Dossier cover letter and our Power of Attorney form to be sent to the Ethiopian embassy in Washington DC. It should be another few weeks yet and
then our Dossier can be assembled by our agency and shipped off to Ethiopia! I feel like we've been waiting forever when it's only been a couple of months. I'm really impatient, just ask my husband. I'm learning though, and really, the only way to grow my patience is to be put through circumstances where I have the opportunity to exercise patience. So bring it on!

By the way, I've always thought that I'm a really good speller, but I just spent a few minutes trying to figure out how to spell exercise. Geesh!



This picture has nothing to do with this post, but I like it!


I'm so thankful for my sist
er! She is my closest friend, besides my hubby, of course. I've been realizing how much harder life would be if my sister and her family weren't living here with us! They know us better than anyone else on this earth (our families even lived together for 3 months last year-no it was NOT fun, but now that we're living apart we really do appreciate each other so much more). I love when we sleep over at each others houses and put all our kids to bed and spend time praying together! God speaks so much more clearly when the 4 of us are seeking him together in prayer. It's been so awesome to experience hearing God's voice like that. Good times!

I love living in Turkey! Some people think that we've sacrificed so much by moving here, but I feel it's the opposite. Really, we've gained so much! Of course it's hard, some days I'm really homesick and miss family and friends a lot, but this life is so short and I'm living for the next one! Sometimes I just need to be reminded of that a lot. In the words of my Grandpa . . . "I'm just passing through Turkey on my way to Heaven." :)

Colson was like the bottomless pit today! I think he's having a growth spurt. For breakfast he had plain y
ogurt, a banana and baked oatmeal. Then for lunch he had a FULL plate of leftover lasagna, a pear, a tangerine, grapes, another plate of lasagna (because he still wasn't full) and then he wanted to eat breakfast all over again! He can totally out-eat me already.

Here is a picture of Turkish tea
! You have to drink it in these teensy weensy glasses (yeah, it's like the law here).



It is a type of black tea produced on the eastern Black Sea coast. When we first moved here I didn't like it, but it's definitely growing on me (probably only because it is served EVERYWHERE you go!). So I had to learn how to make it . . . I never knew that making tea was such a complicated process. I'm thankful for my neighbor who was so sweet to teach me how to make it the right way.




First I needed to buy one of these! Turkish tea is typically prepared using this two stacked kettle
especially designed for tea preparation. You have to boil some water in the larger lower kettle and then some of the water is used to fill the smaller kettle on top and steep several spoons of loose tea leaves, producing a very strong tea. When served, the remaining water is used to dilute the tea on an individual basis, giving each tea consumer the choice between strong or weak. (I got that off of google. hehehe)

I think I like having a blog. Hi to all you 5 (maybe?) readers out there! At least I know my Mom is always reading :) Love you, Mom (you need to figure out how to comment!)

Okay, I think that is enough randomness for one day :)


Tuesday, October 20, 2009

My baby girl is ONE!


Our midwife measuring Vienna a few minutes after she was born




Proud Daddy holding his baby girl




So precious




Colson meeting his baby sister for the first time



Just perfect!




One of our first family pictures


One year ago today our little Vienna Rose was born. I can hardly believe it has been a whole year already! My baby girl is no longer a baby, but a crawling-like-crazy, mommy-preferring, banana-loving, very-determined, brother-following, step-taking, giggling-contagiously, thumb-sucking, daddy-adoring, pig-tail-wearing, blanky-obsessing, very-vocal-about-what-she-wants, has-daddy-wrapped-around-her-little-finger ONE-YEAR-OLD!

I still can't get over it. When we first moved to Turkey she was only 2 1/2 months old. She has spent more of her life here than in the states. She's experienced so many of her firsts here in Turkey. . . first tooth, first solid food (which was cake, by the way - and not under my supervision . . . you leave your baby alone with a bunch of Turkish women for just a second and they're trying to give her sweets :-) ), first steps and so many more!

Words cannot express how much I love this little girl! She has the cutest little smile you will ever see. I love to see her eyes light up and her crawling as fast as she can towards the door when she hears her Daddy come home. I love the way she splashes like crazy in the bathtub. I love the way she wrinkles her nose and makes cute little faces at us while she's eating dinner. I love the way she sucks her thumb and snuggles her blanky. I love the way she comes crawling after me when I leave the room. I love the way she insists on pulling all of my measuring cups out of the drawer whenever she's in the kitchen. I love the way she lays her head on my shoulder and pats my back. I love the way she says "Ma-ma" (that reminds me of a funny story - yesterday at the park Vienna was saying "Ma-ma" and a lady thought she wanted to nurse because it sounded to her like Vienna was saying "meme" which in Turkish means "breast." Ha!)

Here's some nicknames Vienna has accumulated over the past year:

  • Nenna (this one stuck because that's how Colson used to say her name before he could pronounce it)
  • Pretty Girl
  • Nenna Noodle
  • Princess (Colson actually calls her this more than we do; sometimes I think he forgets her real name because he really does call her princess pretty much all the time. Even when he's mad at her when she's going after his toys, he will yell "Noooooooooooooooo Princess!" It's so stinkin' cute!)
  • Canım (Turkish for "my love")
  • Vienna Warrior Princess (we like to call her that when she's crawling as fast as she can after her brother and letting out her battle cry)



Happy Birthday Vienna! We are so blessed that God gave you to us and that we have the privilege of being your parents and raising you to know Him. We love you!



It's my birthday!











Not so sure about all those candles



Partying hard with my brother and cousins

Sunday, October 11, 2009

Who says you need a trampoline to have fun?


Let me just start out by saying that Joel is such a good dad! Colson and Vienna just adore their Daddy. He's always coming up with fun things to do with the kids. Like this afternoon, he brought Vienna's old crib mattress into the living room and surrounded it with the couch cushions and the kids had a blast jumping around.

Here's some pictures from our fun Sunday afternoon.






















Hehe, I love everyone's faces in this picture :)




Colson loves being thrown into the air, the pictures looks like he was close to hitting the ceiling, but don't worry, he was far from it.







Now Vienna's turn



The kids and daddy all pooped after more than an hour of jumping around and singing and dancing.

Now the kids are all in bed (I think they'll sleep good tonight) and Joel is in the kitchen making baklava. Some nights he just gets in the mood to bake and I love it!

We had to ask our next door neighbor to borrow her rolling pin. We had no idea what the word was in Turkish, but we told her we were going to make baklava and we made some hand gestures and she figured out what we meant. Then she laughed and told us that baklava is so hard to make. Joel loves a challenge though. If it turns out good, we'll take some over for our neighbors to try.

Soooooo, what was YOUR Sunday afternoon like? Does anyone read this? Come on, people, leave me some comments ;)

Monday, October 5, 2009

Guess what . . .

. . . we are finished with our Dossier!!!!!!!!!! YAHOOO!!!!!!!!!



Just in case you have forgotten, the Dossier is a HUGE compilation of paperwork that gets sent to Ethiopia. It was pretty much everything about our lives, written on paper and notarized. Now our agency will review all of our paperwork to make sure everything is in order. We're actually still waiting on a couple more papers to come in, but all the work on our end is DONE! So soon (we're hoping the end of this month) our Dossier will be off to Ethiopia and we'll officially be on the waiting list for a child!!!! Just so you can understand how big of a deal this was, here is the rundown of what we needed in our Dossier :


  • Certified copies of both of our birth certificates

  • Certified copy of our marriage license

  • Notarized homestudy (a report written by a social worker who has interviewed us and seen our home)

  • Notarized police background checks in Turkey for both of us

  • Police background checks in PA & TX for both of us

  • Child Abuse registry check in PA for both of us

  • Notarized copy of last year's 1040 tax form

  • Notarized bank statements

  • Notarized medical statements

  • Notarized employment verification letter

  • 3 Notarized reference letters

  • 8 passport size photos of each of us

  • Notarized letter to the government of Ethiopia

  • Notarized Power of Attorney

  • Health insurance verification letter

  • 10 hours of pre-adoption parental training

Gathering all these documents was no easy task, let me tell you, especially since we're living overseas. So now you can see why we're so excited to be done with all of that. Now the next thing we look forward to is waiting, waiting and more waiting. This will be the hardest part! But for now, we're just celebrating being done with all the paperwork and one step closer to bringing home our baby :)

So can I get another YAHOOOOOOO?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!




Saturday, October 3, 2009

A must-read book!

I just finished reading There Is No Me Without You by Melissa Fay Greene and it was one of those books that I could just.not.put.down! I'm still sitting here in shock after learning so many devastating things and reading so many heart-breaking stories from Ethiopia. It was one of those books that challenged me in so many ways, but then again, I don't believe there's any point in being challenged if it doesn't result in a change in my life.

Well, first of all, let me tell you a little about the book. It is a true story about an Ethiopian woman who chose to open up her home to hundreds of AIDS orphans when nobody else would. She even took in children who tested positive for HIV in a country where HIV/AIDS is taboo and something you don't talk about much less actually care about the people who are infected with it. This woman was just an ordinary woman, she just chose not to ignore the devastation all around her, but to actually do something about it. As a result of her life, many child's lives were spared.

God used this book to speak to our hearts in such a profound way!

Yes, I knew about AIDS in Africa and yes, I knew that people were dying. We see it and hear it on the news, but sometimes I think we are numb to it. Do we really know that a whole generation is dying off and their children our being left without parents? Do we really understand that? If we really know that, how can we sit back and do nothing? It has been said that Africa is a continent of orphans.





Proverbs 24:12 - Rescue those being led away to death; hold back those staggering toward slaughter. If you say, "But we knew nothing about this," does not he who weighs the heart perceive it? Does not he who guards your life know it? Will he not repay each person according to what he has done?

This book was also very educational and talked a lot about the history of Ethiopia and the history of AIDS. Do you know that HIV is considered a chronic yet manageable disease? It's not the death sentence it once used to be. With treatments, patients who have HIV can live long, healthy lives without ever developing AIDS. But that is not true for millions of men, women, and children in Ethiopia that have HIV. They don't have access to the treatments that will save their lives.

There are just so many thoughts running through my head, it's hard to put it all into words.

If I believe God's heart is to care for the poor, the sick, the prisoners, the dying, the oppressed, the widows, the orphans, like it mentions so many times in the Bible
, then what am I really doing
to help care for them?