Monday, November 28, 2011

Feeling blessed

Having a baby in a foreign country (and far away from my mom who was such a big help after my other kids were born) was quite a big, scary thing for me. 


But I've experienced God's provision in so many ways through Isaiah's birth. 


First of all, our midwife, Thalia, was ah-mazing! She not only was helpful at Isaiah's birth, but after as well. She got up many mornings and got breakfast for the kids so Joel and I could both get some extra sleep. She made sure I  took it easy the first week and got plenty of rest. I may or may not have even been scolded for trying to do a few dishes :)

She spent a lot of time with Yohanis, Colson and Vienna and made each of them feel so special. They all loved going on walks with her, and she spoiled them with lots of new crayons, coloring books and even candy. Even though my own mom couldn't be here, in so many ways I felt like Thalia filled in that role. She was such a blessing to us and we got to know her a lot better during her three weeks here and we're all missing her. The kids especially miss their "Thalia Abla."





 

We have had lots of visitors and people dropping off meals since Isaiah was born. My sister has been a HUGE help - from making meals to taking some of the other kids to her house to play - she's been awesome! 

And here's some pictures of our friends meeting Isaiah:



















We are so thankful for special friends that have made us feel so loved and cared for even when we're so far from home!

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Monday, November 21, 2011

Isaiah's birth story

I want to write this down before I forget all the details. So here goes. . .

I first started having contractions early in the afternoon on Thursday, November 10th. I just thought they were Braxton Hicks contractions because they didn't hurt and they would come and go. I walked the boys to school like I normally do and then put Vienna down for a nap when I got home. I also climbed in bed and rested for a little. I didn't have any more contractions for a few hours so I thought that was it. 


Joel and the boys got home from school a little after 5 and then our midwife, Thalia, shooed us out the door so we could go on a date. We ordered some pizza for her and the kiddos to be delivered to the apartment and then we hopped on a dolmus (a shared taxi) and went to find some dinner for ourselves. We ended up also eating pizza since a Little Caesar's opened up near us and we wanted to try it. Turks really aren't great at making pizza and we've really missed good pizza. Turns out Little Ceasars wasn't so bad. We ordered our pizza and took it to the park to eat. I was having some contractions during all this, but still not too painful. 

After we had finished eating our pizza, we decided to go home since the contractions were coming closer together and getting more uncomfortable. We got back on a very crowded dolmus and headed for home. Right after we got off the dolmus I had another contraction that was very painful and I had to stop and breathe through it. Then we continued walking back to the apartment. Thalia and the kids were surprised to see us home so soon, and they were actually still finishing up their pizza. They had spread out a picnic blanket on the floor to eat and the boys were having fun putting as much ketchup and mayonnaise on their pizza as they wanted (just like the Turks do). 


The kids watched a movie and I kept track of my contractions, about every 10 minutes lasting around 30 seconds. Around 8:00 we got the kids ready for bed, read to them, sang with them and prayed with them. They all laid hands on my belly and prayed for me and the baby, it was so sweet. Then we tucked them in bed and my contractions started getting more painful and were coming about every 5 minutes.


Smiling between contractions - my last pregnant picture, taken a few hours before Isaiah was born.
After we got the kids to bed, I was pretty uncomfortable so I took a warm shower and it felt good to have the water running on my back. Joel was also amazing and would rub my back and pray for me through every contraction. 


Around 8:45 Thalia checked me and I was 5cm. It felt good to know I was halfway there, but I thought it would be the middle of the night before our baby came. Things kept moving along though and around 10:15 I felt so much pressure and told Thalia I felt like I needed to push soon. She checked me again and I was 9 cm. Soon after that my water broke and then I was ready to push. I pushed through two contractions and then he was here - born at 10:29pm! Right away I heard Joel say, "Honey, it's a BOY!" We were so surprised, but thrilled. I just thought it was so funny because we had absolutely NOTHING ready for a boy (Isaiah's first pictures are with a pink hat on). Thalia handed Isaiah to me right away and what an amazing feeling it was holding my son! I got to nurse him right away and after a little Thalia weighed and measured him - 8 pounds 13 ounces and 21 inches long, my biggest baby!


The whole birth experience was by far my best. It was painful, but it was so quick! I loved being able to labor and deliver in the comfort of my own home (Vienna's birth was also great, but it was at a birthing center rather than at home. And Colson was born in a hospital). It was an incredible experience and little Isaiah couldn't have come at a better time. Over the summer when we were talking everything over with Thalia, we weren't quite sure when to book tickets for her, but everything worked out perfectly and Isaiah arrived right in the middle of her time here. I'm also thankful he came at night and the kids were able to stay at home, they actually slept through the whole thing (just two doors away) and when they woke up the next morning they got to meet their little brother. We have that on video, and it's just so cute! 

We're so thankful for God's provision for this birth and that everything just went so perfectly. We feel so blessed by our sweet little Isaiah!


Now for some more recent pictures of our little man


The proud big brothers and sister . . .









Love love love him!

So cute!


I still can't believe I have four kids!!


Saturday, November 12, 2011

He's here!

That's right . . . HE is here! Isaiah Jace Hildebrand arrived on November 10 at 10:29 pm, weighing in at 8 pounds 13 ounces and 21 inches long! He was quite the surprise, since we were expecting a baby girl, but what a fun surprise it was! All we had to dress him in was pink until I got Colson's old baby clothes washed the next day :) Here's some pictures for now. I will try to post more of the birth story soon!

Just perfect!

A few minutes after he was born, rockin' the pink hat :)


Love him!



Our amazing friend and midwife, Thalia. She is the best!

Proud Daddy

The next morning the kids got to meet their little brother for the first time . . .





Aunt Melanie